First dates are indeed very challenging for almost everyone, as it is the very first time you would be meeting the person whom you have been interacting for months on Facebook, Twitter and any other social networking website. Things become even more challenging when you have never seen each other and have only been talking over the telephone. There are chances that you might experience some high anxieties about your looks and personality. Now here another very important thing is to use your original pictures as a DP on the social media websites, as using a fake picture is not going to help you at all and in the end you would be left with nothing but shame. The success of the first date relies on a number of strategies that you should use in order to impress the hell out of any girl. Not all girls are same, but they do have something in common in terms of their preferences, likes and dislikes. So, keeping in view the first date ideas I would be sharing with you, you would be better able to pass this interview without a resume. Here are 10 things every guy should bring on a first date in order to emerge successful.
10. Pack of Fresh Mint
Surely, all of you might prefer to brush your teeth before going on a first date. But carrying a packet of soft mint with you can prove to be a life saver. The smell of the tooth paste lasts for a very short time span, so by chewing, the fresh smell is going to last much longer. Otherwise, you can only imagine the outcome of your first date, if you let the sour smell of your mouth go into her nose, as it would definitely be the end of all the seduction and sanity.
9. Do Carry Some Cash
Remember that not all of the restaurants and hotels accept credit cards. Keeping this in view, you should carry some cash with you, a minimum of $ 100. How shameful would it prove to be, if she finds that you do not have a single cent in your pocket? I hope you would never want her to pay for the dinner.
8. Carry a Chill Pill
Whether you are being asked out on a first date or you have asked the other person out, it is imperative you should be relaxed. Carrying a chill pill with you is just an abstraction which means that should always remain calm and cool. Try making some jokes and also try to listen which she has to say about it. I know you would never want to pose yourself as cocky and a self-centered spammer.
7. Loads and Loads of Topics to Talk About
The environment is so beautiful, you are looking gorgeous, the economy of our country is doing well for me, I hate global warming, why are you so lovely, may I get the honor of talking to you, do you mind me touching your hand-these are some of topics and things you can talk on the first date. The idea here is to go easy and plain on all things without getting baffled in your own topics.
6. Always Have a Backup Plan with You
Not all first dates turn out to be successful or the way you planned. Just in case your date gets violent, try getting to exit point as soon as possible. The best way is to plan it with a friend, who will call you in times of violence and mayhem in between the date. You can then tell your date that there is an emergency and that you need to go now. But do not forget to take your violet with you and also do not jump out of the bathroom window in order to make the exit.
The chances for getting physical on your first dates are minimal, but not impossible. So be prepared in advance for the girl who is all ready for it. There are some girls who get impressed very fast. Never miss this chance.
4. Your Wits
As I mentioned earlier, that the first dates are more like interviews, as most of the girls try to test on every step. You should always be ready and loaded for answering all forms of questions with a great deal of confidence. One of the most common questions that the girls ask is “Why are you still single”.
3. Your Humor
Almost all women love those guys who can easily make them laugh no matter how tense the situation is for both of you. Try making a joke out of some of the parts of the conversation, but only make those jokes only that make sense.
Flowers are usually taken on the prom, but you should try it out on the first date. Yes, it is a risk, but not an unnecessary one. Just tell her that you felt like carrying it with you. Be brave and try taking this risk, as there are chances of success in it.
Before setting out on the road to your first date, do carry out a clean and pressed hankie with you. It would definitely come in handy during the sad scene of the movie. So when you your dates start crying, do offer him a hankie and tell her that it is a new one just for her. This initiative would prove to be quite impressive to her.